Friday, May 24, 2024

 

Solemn Memorial Day, Not Happy Memorial Day

Henry Mark Holzer 

I send these remarks every year close to Memorial Day because they are a useful reminder that the Day is not a “happy” one. As well intentioned as some people are, associating the word “happy” with Memorial Day is not appropriate .

Memorial Day, the last Monday in May each year, is a federal holiday established to remember those who died while members of our country’s armed forces (unlike Veterans’ Day, which celebrates those who served).

With the Day’s genesis in Decoration Day – when volunteers laid flowers at graves of the fallen – Memorial Day is not a time for family barbecues, baseball games, or garage sales.

It’s a Day for all Americans – those who wore our Nation’s uniform and those who were not so privileged – to memorialize by thought and deed the heavy, irredeemable price deceased Americans have paid . . . and how much we owe them for what they lost in every war from the Revolution two-hundred-forty-eight years ago to our government’s shameful flight from Afghanistan three years ago.

Memorial Day is very different from America’s birthday. Independence Day (not the “4th of July”) should be celebrated with fireworks, patriotic songs, and loud band concerts.

But not Memorial Day, a time of remembrance too solemn an occasion to be “happy.”

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